When to Put the Phones Away: Setting Boundaries for a More Meaningful Celebration
In an age where moments are often seen through a screen before they’re lived, it’s worth asking: how do you want your wedding to feel for your guests—and for yourselves? For many couples working with a professional event planner or wedding planning service , the answer is clear: they want presence. They want laughter, shared glances, and a sense of connection that no photo can fully capture. And they’re realizing that setting thoughtful boundaries around phone use is one of the simplest, most elegant ways to make space for that. Setting the Tone Early Rather than waiting until guests are seated, set the expectation gently but clearly—through your save the dates, wedding website, or tasteful signage at the ceremony entrance. A short, gracious message like “We invite you to be fully present with us—please turn off phones and cameras during the ceremony” communicates your wishes without sounding restrictive. Framing it as an opportunity rather than a rule often leads to ...